If you cannot trust your children to follow your rules and instructions, then have them read "Lying Is Like Reckless Driving" posted on Character Counts.
The writer, Micheal Josephson, wrote that when you are not caught for reckless driving you are lucky and no one will be hurt. However, it is an irresponsible action as it endangers human life. Lies are just as bad as it can endanger human relationships. The more you lie, the easier it becomes. It can turn habitual.
He also added that like land mines, lies can stay dormant but, sooner or later, they will explode, damaging both your credibility and reputation. You generate suspicion and distrust and deprive the victim truthful information needed to make sensible decisions. So, lying is being disrespectful and is not a healthy basis for any relationship.
Love this? There are many more thought provoking, character building articles by Micheal Josephson that you can read about. I also love this article, "A Child's Compulsive Lying" by Dr. Timothy Quek. For ease of reading and follow up, I have created a table with his points.
You can also try playing the Tumble Down Game with your children to remind them to be mindful of their actions.
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Wow, this is an interesting post. Thanks.
Also, thanks for leaving a comment. You're always welcome to tell me about your day in seven words! Have a great day.
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I am addicted as I am thinking of my children in 7 words:
Son: Shared his dreams. He received a piano.
Daughter: Banging doors again! Gets nothing from demands.
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