Have you heard of YingLing?

Can't sleep? Are these the problems you are facing right now?

1) Your children are always arguing, disobedient and disrespectful.
2) You and your spouse argue over the slightest issue.
3) Yours or your spouse's business is not doing well.
4) You are indecisiveness and always contradicting yourself.
5) You are indifferent to the wellbeing of your children.
6) Your family members are plagued with ailments and problems one after another.

Try to recall when your problem started. If it is not too long after your first or second child and you have lost a baby or aborted one in your life, it may well be the presence of yingling (嬰靈). This is what I have discovered from The New Straits Times article, Restless Souls, by Chai Mei Ling.

Yingling or ghost of the foetus can cause disharmony in your family because they are envious of siblings who live on and enjoy life while they cannot move on and be reincarnated. Can anything be done to appease these young souls if you have one lingering on in your life?

According to Taoist master and feng shui practitioner, Yu Even, the YingLing is not being vicious but is actually sending an SOS signal to it's parents that it needs help to move on to the next realm.

She said that YingLing do not have as much wisdom as a full grown human to be qualified for reincarnation. She is able to appease and arm them with more wisdom by performing a ritual of sending them off in a boat.

Some temples offer ceremonies to placate YingLing and there is one in Taipei that also offers the service online. Read more about it and the experiences of people who used this service on Taipei Times.